Missing women

[TheBoostLord]

Within the past 2 weeks I have noticed a disturbing trend of young women missing. I'm sure a lot of you would have noticed but I didn't see a thread on the matter. Down to 2 hrs ago I saw 4 posts on fb from a father enquiring about his missing daughter since last night. This seems more than just a coincidence. At this point I'm strongly considering migrating as I'm almost sure most of these cases will go unsolved and I can't bear to deal with such a loss. I'd like to hear some opinions on the matter, This is serious stuff and I can't be the only one srsly worried about it.

[bluefete]

The Alexander guy showed a skit on his show last week (just before the 2 women disappeared, eh - just saying) to enlighten people on how easy it is for women to disappear.

In the skit, this girl responded to an ad, went for the interview got the job based on her looks and figure and was not asked to show papers. She was told to meet the men the next day on a street. When she showed up they kidnapped her and took her straight to a boat which shipped her out immediately.

Then the 2 women went missing in real life.

[desifemlove]

running away to bf/hub

they in ting and getting reprisal

trafficking

not making bad imputations on them, i ent know them. but then cannot be discounted.

[TheBoostLord]

Here is the latest.

[Redman]

This isnt a recent trend.

Its a real problem but there does not seem to be a concerted effort to solve the problem.

[toyolink]

I am as troubled about these things as OP but migrating doesn't appear to be a viable option since I am one of those Trinis who for bad or worse rooted here.
We all need to step up in what ever way we can and try and protect our folks which includes insisting that our young girl/lady children be very careful about where they go and who they out with (even if it irritates the hell out of them).
We need to drill into the heads of the young and head strong ones the need to avoid meeting strangers without a companion present.
Damn this kinda thing is distressing for all good minded people but also as hurtfull is our youths just killing themselves and their peers before they can get into the essence of life.
...I suppose people like myself just have to absorb the pain and keep on lecturing to who would listen.

[Hyperion]

this is really distressing, but it's not a recent phenomenon. This trend of missing women goes way back as far as the 1980's. Strangely enough, it seems to go in cycles though, wish someone could provide some statistics so we could more easily see the trends.

I was really upset last week when the news confirmed that the remains found in Macqueripe earlier this year were those of a young lady who had gone to PoS to respond to an employment ad, just place yourself in her family's position.

[streetbeastINC.]

Realy scary ppl live in trinidad now,,,,like everyday is surviving opening your front door......

[Allergic2BunnyEars]

You guys serious? Migrating? Where does not have missing women???

[Redman]

We cant deny that we have
Serial Killers
People kidnapped and kept in a cage/exported

Any suitably scaled down sample of all the wierdos,freaks and animals that we see elswhere.

What frightens me is the impunity that they can operate with.

[EFFECTIC DESIGNS]

You guys serious? Migrating? Where does not have missing women???

Wrangel Island

[MD Marketers]

So you are considering running away because you're scared to lose something?
You'll still lose something in the end. Your pride.

If it really bothers you that much why not:
Stay & help make a difference.
Encourage your loved ones to be cautious
Help others to be cautious
Run away with the intention to help make a difference from a remote location at least.

What happens to the loved ones you left behind?
It's considered a selfish act for you & your migrating crew. Not that you need care what we think, but in that case why should we care what you think.
Don't limit yourself to just being a survivor or a victim.
I'm just giving you alternative options than running away to ignore a threat to your loved ones. Given the state of the world we live in, it's the equivalent of sticking your head in the sand.

Running away isn't a solution to our problem, it's just a solution to yours I suppose. If the well being of you & the ones closest to you is all that matters to you then you are doing the right thing.

On another note.
Can you please return some of the funds we spent on you & your loved ones before you go? Like health care, education, etc? Never mind, keep it & go, we gave it to you the same way a mother would a child. We don't want anything back in return. Please be safe in the knowledge that you are safe whilst your metaphorical mom dies in agony.

[MD Marketers]

I am as troubled about these things as OP but migrating doesn't appear to be a viable option since I am one of those Trinis who for bad or worse rooted here.
We all need to step up in what ever way we can and try and protect our folks which includes insisting that our young girl/lady children be very careful about where they go and who they out with (even if it irritates the hell out of them).
We need to drill into the heads of the young and head strong ones the need to avoid meeting strangers without a companion present.
Damn this kinda thing is distressing for all good minded people but also as hurtfull is our youths just killing themselves and their peers before they can get into the essence of life.
...I suppose people like myself just have to absorb the pain and keep on lecturing to who would listen.

I believe it's statically proven that nagging teenagers to do/not do something is a sure way to get them to want to do the opposite.
Don't nag.
Sublimely show them statistics every now and again along with a few vivid stories. Everyone loves stories. Choose the stories that have similar traits to their lives & end in extreme sadness. If you can't find one close enough make one up. It's not always bad to lie if it will result in only positive actions.
Encourage Empathy.
It's scientifically proven the best way to learn something is by experience or the experience of others.
Don't just say it's wrong. Show why it's wrong with the use of practical examples.

Don't discriminate the subliminal messages based on Gender or Loved ones. Tell the boys too. Your not just protecting them from becoming a victim, you also want to protect them from becoming an offender as well

[nervewrecker]

Well I see they find she...

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[Lance]

I read the update from the girl's father. Very vague.

Glad that she is back and safe though.

[Advent]

whats d update ?

[Lance]

She was found and safe but he can't comment further as it is a matter now with the police.

[Advent]

She was found and safe but he can't comment further as it is a matter now with the police.

i feel she ran away ?

[4X4 Trinidad]

The Alexander guy showed a skit on his show last week (just before the 2 women disappeared, eh - just saying) to enlighten people on how easy it is for women to disappear.

In the skit, this girl responded to an ad, went for the interview got the job based on her looks and figure and was not asked to show papers. She was told to meet the men the next day on a street. When she showed up they kidnapped her and took her straight to a boat which shipped her out immediately.

Then the 2 women went missing in real life.

In times like this women need to be smart. A couple years ago a friend of mines was accosted by a well dressed, well spoken, alright looking man in Chaguanas, who said he's working for a popular modelling agency and thought she would make a excellent candidate. When asked for a call card, he didn't have any.



Easy catch for some traffickers. Some women who are desperate for money and attention can easily overlook these dangers.

[rollingstock]

Missing?

Little girls going to collect pr!ck ain't missing.

[Kalisnakov]

Missing?

Little girls going to collect pr!ck ain't missing.

^^^^
Lol

[VexXx Dogg]

There's a missing persons FB group as well:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/7483215 ... 4/?fref=ts

[HSA]

She was found and safe but he can't comment further as it is a matter now with the police.

i feel she ran away ?

she run away by she mudda in morvant.....father and mother separated..father has legal custody and mother has visitation rights....

d gyul was missin she mudda....mee en see no problem wit dat..daiz wat d newsday paypas say dis mornin

[Advent]

She was found and safe but he can't comment further as it is a matter now with the police.

i feel she ran away ?

she run away by she mudda in morvant.....father and mother separated..father has legal custody and mother has visitation rights....

d gyul was missin she mudda....mee en see no problem wit dat

[DTAC]

She was found and safe but he can't comment further as it is a matter now with the police.

i feel she ran away ?

she run away by she mudda in morvant.....father and mother separated..father has legal custody and mother has visitation rights....

d gyul was missin she mudda....mee en see no problem wit dat..daiz wat d newsday paypas say dis mornin

What??! She went by her mother and she couldn't say, "I'm by mum" and the mother couldn't say, "She is by me.". No wonder the father has custody. The mother must be a real sewer rat.

[Lance]

Surely the dad would have been on contact with the mother during the time.

Mother should be charged for wasting police time.

[MD Marketers]

She was found and safe but he can't comment further as it is a matter now with the police.

i feel she ran away ?

she run away by she mudda in morvant.....father and mother separated..father has legal custody and mother has visitation rights....

d gyul was missin she mudda....mee en see no problem wit dat..daiz wat d newsday paypas say dis mornin

That could be a cover up for her not to get in trouble with her dad after the mom found out the truth about where she was and what she was doing.

The more important question here is:
Why ugly girls don't ever go missing?

[Kalisnakov]

She was found and safe but he can't comment further as it is a matter now with the police.

i feel she ran away ?

she run away by she mudda in morvant.....father and mother separated..father has legal custody and mother has visitation rights....

d gyul was missin she mudda....mee en see no problem wit dat..daiz wat d newsday paypas say dis mornin

That could be a cover up for her not to get in trouble with her dad after the mom found out the truth about where she was and what she was doing.

The more important question here is:
Why ugly girls don't ever go missing?

^^um.......did u see her pic....

[shotta 20]

She was found and safe but he can't comment further as it is a matter now with the police.

i feel she ran away ?

she run away by she mudda in morvant.....father and mother separated..father has legal custody and mother has visitation rights....

d gyul was missin she mudda....mee en see no problem wit dat..daiz wat d newsday paypas say dis mornin

That could be a cover up for her not to get in trouble with her dad after the mom found out the truth about where she was and what she was doing.

The more important question here is:
Why ugly girls don't ever go missing?

^^um.......did u see her pic....

Lol, same thing I thinking..

[gastly369]

Allyuh men harsh yes...