What B20VTEK said exactly...you asking too much questions. Guys here went through the same situation, the serious ones at least, and much of their knowledge came from research as well as trial and error. Don't expect results on a plate if that's what you're seeking...thats the magazine type mentality, you read it and if it works for them it'll work for me right...WRONG.
A lot of guys gave good advice to guide your focus...yet, we are 6 pages in and you're still not sure which direction you truly want to go. Start seriously researching your options across the net, in books, talking to open minded mechanics and tuners, et al. I am certain that you have a vision of your project in your mind. Why not share the key points of that vision and let the gurus help you from there. I do give you credit for knowing how fast you want to go and how much you're willing to spend....many guys can't do that. You're going to get your goals though, they are very much within reach.
This is one of the reasons why we need a Honda modification guide at the top of this forum
