abortion vs adoption

[K74T]

Edited post FTL.

Try again lost to all

[STORM1234]

Edited post FTL.

Try again lost to all

couldn't resist!

[Trini Hookah]

Have any idea how hard it is to get a child adopted in Trinidad?

After the laws were recently amended yes.

[RBphoto]

^^^Easier now? Have a few people who well off looking for a kid to adopt years now... but they are looking for an infant.

[Trini Hookah]

Apologies if I phrased it wrong, it's now significantly harder. Any single male looking to adopt etc...tough beans.

[Slartibartfast]

I do however stick to my opinion that abortion is something i could never see myself being resorted too,however the situation may be!

This is basically it right here. I watched documentary on it already and there was a lady who was of the same opinion as you until she decided to have her abortion. What she said stuck with me, she said

"The only moral abortion is my abortion..."

meaning that only when the situation is so bad that abortion becomes the only alternative can you then understand the choice behind it. It's like a deer deciding to gnaw off it's leg because it is stuck it's leg is stuck in a trap and it is about to be killed. Of course the deer would never just decide to gnaw off its leg but the alternative just so much more horrific.

My personal opinion is that abortion should be avoided at all costs but it should not outlawed because that would lead to young ladies turning to less safe places for it. Young women should also be given support and young men and women should be given proper education on what it means to have a child and how to have safe sex.

As a guy without any kids, if I ever have a daughter I would hate to imagine anyone ever touching her... but these things happen and it's best to bite the bullet and plan for it rather than ignore it till it's too late

my 2 cents.

[Country_Bookie]

Abortion laws are a double edged sword. If it's too easy to adopt, then all kinda social miscreants and forever alone types will end up adopting kids just to sexually abuse them. Laws should be made easier for couples who want to adopt though.

[iDynamic]

My baby died, in order for my gf to live or be able to have kids later on in life we were told she had to do the abortion since various pills and treatment didn't fully work, wasn't cheap but she is alive and hopefully she can give life once again.

[redmanjp]

My baby died, in order for my gf to live or be able to have kids later on in life we were told she had to do the abortion since various pills and treatment didn't fully work, wasn't cheap but she is alive and hopefully she can give life once again.

so it was legal in your case?

[4X4 Trinidad]

My baby died, in order for my gf to live or be able to have kids later on in life we were told she had to do the abortion since various pills and treatment didn't fully work, wasn't cheap but she is alive and hopefully she can give life once again.

If the baby died, thats not really an abortion. Aborting means stopping the pregnancy by killing the baby. In this case it was a missed miscarriage and an ERPC (Evacuation of Retained Products of Contraception) is done in the hospital or nursing home... which is the same procedure they would do for an abortion, except in your case its a necessity to get rid of the fetus.

Sorry for your loss...

[iDynamic]

Thank you for the information i stand corrected , i have no idea if it's legal, before they run the ultra sound they ask you if you would like to keep it (assuming its alive)

Everything so far costs around $6000