Saeed wrote:To all the ladies and fellas out dare I have a question. Wats your view of getting married young like boy 19 girl 16.?
My view :
Wa gonna happen if the "fire" burn out after a few years?
Well you've obviously seen the reaction of some on this forum: They don't care because its dismissive. Its not the hypothetical one would consider getting into if they have (and use) sound judgement.
I have a feeling you're the subject of this hypothetical, a 19 year old who like so many Trinidadian young men have horrific grammar (ie dare), who think with their c*ck and not their heads (oh wait...that will be most Trinidadian men...how foolish of me).
So as that 19 year old boy, if you are serious about the girl, wait. Wait to establish a foundation for yourself, a home, a sense of security then consider marriage after you have accomplished these things.
I will say a 16 year old wanting to get married that young is using marriage as an opportunity and/or means to an end. She wants out of a situation and uses the man as her way out.
Just something to keep in mind.