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shogun wrote:^not true eh!
I know of women that specifically and strategically plan what events/limes, they attend, solely based on the calibre men that will be there and DO NOT attend ANYTHING, where they presume only cetch arse men are present.
geodude wrote:against my better judgement i am gonna treat this thread some what seriously,
i see it like this, there are many ifs,
First off, what do you want from the relationship, if you serious about something long term with the girl then that needs to be factored in,
If you are, you need to consider is the girl accustomed to this "High maintenance lifestyle"?, i.e is this the life that has been provided for her consistently,
If so, then i think its pretty ridiculous to expect her to allow you to be part of her life and commit to you when in return you cannot even provide the bare minimum of what is expected, or seen as normal to her, now this goes both ways if there are emotions involved and you both understand each other then simply laying your cards on the table and let her know that "hey i know that you live this life and i would like to give the same things to you but right now i cannot but i will try my best to do so",
This will be a sacrifice and you need to know if its worth it. If she is i think she will understand, if she doesn't then she aint worth sheit,
But this being said does not mean you get a free pass, she is now settling for less and you would need to make up for it, at least once a month or when ever possible try to do things that are the calibre that she expects, dinner at a nice restaurant, gifts, yearly vacation, not necessary a trip to an exotic destination but a nice all inclusive in the Caribbean , if you plan for it it can be done quite easily on a yearly basis,
Now if she is not accustomed to this life but simply expects you to give it to her because she thinks that she deserves it knowing fully well that you cannot afford it, or even if you can and she demands it because she wants it then i would say GTFO and save your money.
my friends constantly comment that i date women that are very much out of my financial standard , and ask how i do it, and if i were to answer it would be what i wrote above, if you want it to work and this is what they are accustomed to then its idiotic to believe that anyone will foresake their entire lifestyle for you, they might and should be willing to compromise if you cannot afford to pamper them constantly it, this sort or relationship takes time, patience and persons that want to make it work, if those are absent it wont,
i wrote this assuming you are cash strapped and thats y u complaining, if you are loaded and complaining then you just cheap and will get horn.
AllTrac wrote:nervewrecker wrote: $$$ cant buy love,
FALSE.
money buying anything. ANYTHING.
Bizzare wrote:I just show them my penis.
But seriously, all girls are different. What works for one may not work for another. There's no one method. Don't try figuring a chick out. Just ask for what you want, is yes or no. Know how much of your female friends is up for a fcuk if you'd only ask.
shogun wrote:^not quite.
High maintenance/materialistic girls, will tie up ANY man they can snare...looks have nothing to do with it.
I think it's because "pretty boys" tend to get more women, and have no prob doing so, they're less desperate, making it more difficult for a high maintenance woman to tie them up.
like i said...monkey know what tree to climb.
crazybalhead wrote:High maintenance girls should be subject to random drug testing. Maintenance is serious work.
crazybalhead wrote:High maintenance girls should be subject to random drug testing. Maintenance is serious work.
shake d livin wake d dead wrote:Any of you guys ever deal ah gyal who is "high maintenance" meaning she likes only the finest things,best places to go out most expensive clothing,etc etc...so what do you guys do? spend like allyuh mad,or doh beat up at all??
RIPEBREDFRUIT wrote:shake d livin wake d dead wrote:Any of you guys ever deal ah gyal who is "high maintenance" meaning she likes only the finest things,best places to go out most expensive clothing,etc etc...so what do you guys do? spend like allyuh mad,or doh beat up at all??
what a thing, man wants to upgrade his status by dating ah rich gyal, disconnect yuh internet and use that money to feed her, get off trinituner forums with these stupid questions.
problem fix
shake d livin wake d dead wrote:Any of you guys ever deal ah gyal who is "high maintenance" meaning she likes only the finest things,best places to go out most expensive clothing,etc etc...so what do you guys do? spend like allyuh mad,or doh beat up at all??
geometron wrote:shake d livin wake d dead wrote:Any of you guys ever deal ah gyal who is "high maintenance" meaning she likes only the finest things,best places to go out most expensive clothing,etc etc...so what do you guys do? spend like allyuh mad,or doh beat up at all??
well afta i dus take all meh money, buy plenty music n crims n load it inna nissan, wha kinda gyul yuh expect to pick up
rfari wrote:OP, best bet is dnt try to compete on a money level but do things different from what she accustom to. frig the fancy restaurants, prepare a nice meal at home. fancy-dansy and shi't. naparima cookbook issa muss. there is a chance that she never experienced that sort of delight (from a dude). another bess tactic is to use the great outdoors to build a nice vibes.
evostik like yuh still sours about when that fella bruck yuh *dialup connection drops*
eliteauto wrote:soooooo yuh eh take the hint?
eliteauto wrote:soooooo yuh eh take the hint?
crazybalhead wrote:eliteauto wrote:soooooo yuh eh take the hint?
man cho way gargle balls easy easy dey yes...
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