Married, single, looking....?

[eurogirl]

eurogirl, happens ..doesnt it.

yea i'm jaded


it doh really matter nuh coz at the end of the day iz abt me and wat i want yes

[rodfarva]

[eurogirl]

eurogirl, happens ..doesnt it.

yea i'm jaded


it doh really matter nuh coz at the end of the day iz abt me and wat i want yes

sandwiches no longer cutting it huh?

not really

3's a crowd

[Mr. Red Sleeper]

eurogirl,
Thats the idea...Everything about ME!

[rodfarva]

eurogirl, happens ..doesnt it.

yea i'm jaded


it doh really matter nuh coz at the end of the day iz abt me and wat i want yes

sandwiches no longer cutting it huh?

not really

3's a crowd

the only thing better than 2 sandwitches is 3 sandwitches.

[Mr. Red Sleeper]

^^but a bird in the hand....

[eurogirl]

Mr. Red Sleeper, forget it


he won't understand

[rodfarva]

eurogirl,

I'm very understanding

[Mr. Red Sleeper]

Mr. Red Sleeper, forget it


he won't understand

You know i aint worried

[AbstractPoetic]

DAMN STRAIGHT !!!

Tell them like it is. I love my wife too bad. From now till the end of time. \

But boy woman out here too sweet

I love the taste of p****

Not all that glitters is gold. But hey, do you.

[AbstractPoetic]

I was faithful in my last serious relationship. I committed, kept my legs closed, even while being thousands of miles away because I believed what we had was real...and worth the wait

well dais u....it was long established that u are different from the norm

So because I am, perhaps, the few remaining individuals willing to remain faithful, that makes me abnormal?

Just because the majority of Trinbagonians horn, have horned, have been horned or is being horned does not mean the actions of horners should be condoned or exemplified.

[eurogirl]

in my last so called relationship i never horn too much just a lil bit to make me recognise wat i had was way better than wat was outsideoffering was worst i knew he did it also so and felt the same way

Ironic how u just accept these things eh

[AbstractPoetic]

AbstractPoetic, so what about good, new fashioned fun???

I mean...is everything about serious relationships... M word and ring pon finger ?

Good new fashioned fun?

When has "new" piggy or "new" nanny been viewed as a "good" or "fun" thing?

Not all men have to stick in all the opened holes and not all women have to open her shop to give out to whomever wants.

Like I've said, sex is overrated. And its never JUST about the sex. Sex is fleeting, as is the orgasm(s), foreplay, and flirtation.

What IS gratifying is either or all of the following:

1. Having options
2. Being wanted
3. Being appreciated (though, only for your sex organ)
4. Having the control to take what you want, with no strings
5. Validation (this has to do with low-self esteem)
6. Risky behavior (some people get a rush from knowing they can get caught)


Of course for most men horners, it has more than anything to do with options, validation and control.

For most women horners, it has to do with feeling wanted, especially when neglected by her man. This usually leads to emotional attachments, and well, things can (and do) turn ugly.

[AbstractPoetic]

in my last so called relationship i never horn too much just a lil bit to make me recognise wat i had was way better than wat was outsideoffering was worst i knew he did it also so and felt the same way

Ironic how u just accept these things eh

NOT kosher, eurogirl.

"Horn a lil bit"?

Girl, horning is not quantifiable.

[eurogirl]

Yea it is ..


well to me anyways .. coz i don't aim for sex, i aim for companionship , friendship , sex u can get anywhere but if u're in a relationship with the guy it means tht u actually like doing the nasty with him hence he's u're current squeeze , if you actually like a fellar coz he's a good conversationalist then something wrong with u yes .. coz last time i check yuh bed doh get warm with sappy talk ....

a friend of mine recently got a beatdown frm her outside man wife ..in front her future mother in law ... totally not cool .. so I guess tht gonna make me stop playing de fool with ppl chirren yes lol


AP u need to remind me this is tuner and not carribbean mix

[AbstractPoetic]

It comes as no surprise that the men who are currently horning are recent divorcees.

You have been hurt. She played you. She might have even horned you. Or took you for a ride, depleted your bank account, and is now using your children to black mail you.

So you're bitter. You want to show her you have moved on. That you can be appreciated and wanted and needed by other women besides her.

Nah, fugg that. You want to show yourself you can move the h*ll on.

So you seek validation by using women and controlling women.

And you have your piggy to do just that. Use women the way you have been used. Get your thrill and ride out. No headache. No strings. Just you, your piggy, her nanny, and a fleeting moment.

But you want to bet how many of you are still unhappy? Whether by life choices or by the cards you've been dealt?

And just a reminder: piggies are fleeting too. When the blood stops rushing on its own, and Viagra no longer remains a viable option, what then?

Especially if you have nothing else to offer (i.e. money or being a sugar daddy)?

You start back at square one, having no choice but to resort to another fix to get over the wrongs you have suffered.

Alcoholism. Drug Abuse. You name it.

I wish you much peace and solitude with yourself.

[AbstractPoetic]

Yea it is ..


well to me anyways .. coz i don't aim for sex, i aim for companionship , friendship , sex u can get anywhere but if u're in a relationship with the guy it means tht u actually like doing the nasty with him hence he's u're current squeeze , if you actually like a fellar coz he's a good conversationalist then something wrong with u yes .. coz last time i check yuh bed doh get warm with sappy talk ....

a friend of mine recently got a beatdown frm her outside man wife ..in front her future mother in law ... totally not cool .. so I guess tht gonna make me stop playing de fool with ppl chirren yes lol


AP u need to remind me this is tuner and not carribbean mix

Girl, I haven't been there in a minute. I'll be sure to stop by tonight!

Ahh, companionship.

If sex was as available as companionship, we would have already been married to our soulmates. We won't even have had to go through all the drama with men...finding out he has horned you...or that he's engaged...or plans to wed...to another

I'm sorry to hear about your friend, but you know the saying....if you play with fire.....

[Peanut Punch]

<--- Married

[rodfarva]

AP, I have nothing against monogamous relationships.. If I'm in a relationship, I keep is monogamous.

If yuh f**k someone wife/gf/husband/bf and get a cut arse...well yuh look for it.
(not you specifically)

For most women horners, it has to do with feeling wanted, especially when neglected by her man. This usually leads to emotional attachments, and well, things can (and do) turn ugly.

I call shenanigans. Women always say that. Steups. Lets define ' feeling wanted, especially when neglected by her man.'

Thats called an Insecurity. Women horn because they are insecure, or because they (as is typical of women) are not happy with what they have. They just hold on to the 'substandard' man until they think something better comes along, at which point, they dont break it off with Mr. Substandard. Instead, they begin a 'relationship' with Mr. Outside. If they fall for Mr. Outside, they will then leave Mr. Substandard and pick up completely with Mr. Outside. OR
If Mr. Outside doesn't turn out to be the right fit, they break it off with him.

When it comes to horning, women are far more devious than men. They Horn physically & emotionally.

in my last so called relationship i never horn too much just a lil bit to make me recognise wat i had was way better than wat was outsideoffering was worst i knew he did it also so and felt the same way

You just proved my above point.

[Mudboy]

^^^^^if its nice do it twice

[Mudboy]

It comes as no surprise that the men who are currently horning are recent divorcees.

You have been hurt. She played you. She might have even horned you. Or took you for a ride, depleted your bank account, and is now using your children to black mail you.

So you're bitter. You want to show her you have moved on. That you can be appreciated and wanted and needed by other women besides her.

Nah, fugg that. You want to show yourself you can move the h*ll on.

So you seek validation by using women and controlling women.

And you have your piggy to do just that. Use women the way you have been used. Get your thrill and ride out. No headache. No strings. Just you, your piggy, her nanny, and a fleeting moment.

But you want to bet how many of you are still unhappy? Whether by life choices or by the cards you've been dealt?

And just a reminder: piggies are fleeting too. When the blood stops rushing on its own, and Viagra no longer remains a viable option, what then?

Especially if you have nothing else to offer (i.e. money or being a sugar daddy)?

You start back at square one, having no choice but to resort to another fix to get over the wrongs you have suffered.

Alcoholism. Drug Abuse. You name it.

I wish you much peace and solitude with yourself.

whey sah.......all that because SR didnt sort you out?

[eurogirl]

Yea it is ..


well to me anyways .. coz i don't aim for sex, i aim for companionship , friendship , sex u can get anywhere but if u're in a relationship with the guy it means tht u actually like doing the nasty with him hence he's u're current squeeze , if you actually like a fellar coz he's a good conversationalist then something wrong with u yes .. coz last time i check yuh bed doh get warm with sappy talk ....

a friend of mine recently got a beatdown frm her outside man wife ..in front her future mother in law ... totally not cool .. so I guess tht gonna make me stop playing de fool with ppl chirren yes lol


AP u need to remind me this is tuner and not carribbean mix

Girl, I haven't been there in a minute. I'll be sure to stop by tonight!

Ahh, companionship.

If sex was as available as companionship, we would have already been married to our soulmates. We won't even have had to go through all the drama with men...finding out he has horned you...or that he's engaged...or plans to wed...to another

I'm sorry to hear about your friend, but you know the saying....if you play with fire.....

pfft he was a police man so i'm guessing she didn't want him for his intellectual conversation ... lol


rodfarva u got a point i'm so insecure its a crying shame .....
<<<< see me cry ...

lmao @ mudboy .. tobago love boy

[AbstractPoetic]

I call shenanigans. Women always say that. Steups. Lets define ' feeling wanted, especially when neglected by her man.'

Thats called an Insecurity. Women horn because they are insecure, or because they (as is typical of women) are not happy with what they have. They just hold on to the 'substandard' man until they think something better comes along, at which point, they dont break it off with Mr. Substandard. Instead, they begin a 'relationship' with Mr. Outside. If they fall for Mr. Outside, they will then leave Mr. Substandard and pick up completely with Mr. Outside. OR
If Mr. Outside doesn't turn out to be the right fit, they break it off with him.

When it comes to horning, women are far more devious than men. They Horn physically & emotionally.

True, insecurity has to do with it. Insecure about her man being faithful or her man not wanting her the way he used to, or her man neglecting her needs (i.e. her attempts to communicate on her wants in the bedroom is not fully fulfilled or attempted by her man).

But then again, a woman who isn't getting what she wants, will not stay. An insecure woman will. Because for these types, a neglectful man is better than no man.

And when another man propositions her, and tells her how "sexy" she is or how he wants to fulfill her needs in ways her man can't, she gets curious and before you know it, gets emotionally and physically involved.


All I'm saying is, its usually a cause and effect reality. Usually stemmed from miscommunication, by both parties.

[rodfarva]

I call shenanigans. Women always say that. Steups. Lets define ' feeling wanted, especially when neglected by her man.'

Thats called an Insecurity. Women horn because they are insecure, or because they (as is typical of women) are not happy with what they have. They just hold on to the 'substandard' man until they think something better comes along, at which point, they dont break it off with Mr. Substandard. Instead, they begin a 'relationship' with Mr. Outside. If they fall for Mr. Outside, they will then leave Mr. Substandard and pick up completely with Mr. Outside. OR
If Mr. Outside doesn't turn out to be the right fit, they break it off with him.

When it comes to horning, women are far more devious than men. They Horn physically & emotionally.

True, insecurity has to do with it. Insecure about her man being faithful or her man not wanting her the way he used to, or her man neglecting her needs (i.e. her attempts to communicate on her wants in the bedroom is not fully fulfilled or attempted by her man).

But then again, a woman who isn't getting what she wants, will not stay. An insecure woman will. Because for these types, a neglectful man is better than no man.

And when another man propositions her, and tells her how "sexy" she is or how he wants to fulfill her needs in ways her man can't, she gets curious and before you know it, gets emotionally and physically involved.


All I'm saying is, its usually a cause and effect reality. Usually stemmed from miscommunication, by both parties.

Agreed that a lot is stemmed from miscommunication

Unfortunately my point is that women horn on both a physical and emotional level... a Complete betrayal

As opposed to men.

See another woman - find her physically attractive... do what must be done to bull.. finish...go home...rinse and repeat.



Its hardly ever like that with women

rodfarva u got a point i'm so insecure its a crying shame .....
<<<< see me cry ...

eurogirl - Don't cry (unless its true):lol: . My point has validity.

[AbstractPoetic]

Agreed that a lot is stemmed from miscommunication

Unfortunately my point is that women horn on both a physical and emotional level... a Complete betrayal

As opposed to men.

See another woman - find her physically attractive... do what must be done to bull.. finish...go home...rinse and repeat.



Its hardly ever like that with women

Men are from Mars...women are from....you know it

We naturally seek emotional attachment because its in our nature to be emotional.

For most women cheaters (not all), they can only reach their physical peak if their mind is turned on, and part of that is knowing more about who she is sleeping with. They want to know about your desires, goals, aspirations, etc; even if that means having a "cuddle and talk" moment after the act of horn.


Most cheating women cheat due to an outside emotional attachment. The physically follows thereafter.

She will first throw bait and tell you about how unhappy she is with X boyfriend/husband; about her experiences with men; how she doesn't know if she'll ever find Mr. Right. And etc. etc. etc. to see if you are the "listening" or "caring" type.

The more a man listens, the better his chances of getting what he's after.

The more expert of horner men know that if you become that "shoulder to cry on", you'll have a side woman for life. Provided you come correct with the piggy licks.

[rodfarva]

AbstractPoetic, agreed

[UML]

allllllll dis relationship talk?!!!!

short and simple.........fellas want a woman who is a lady on the street and a freak under the sheets!!!


Apply within

[turbonator]

single.. not really looking.. more like... letting them come..

couldn't have said it better myself

[Olive]

allllllll dis relationship talk?!!!!

short and simple.........fellas want a woman who is a lady on the street and a freak under the sheets!!!


Apply within

give fellas some credit...yeah they may want ^^^ but fellas have feelings and needs that go beyond ^^^

(jus for clarification...i'm a chick eh..jus talking for the fellas who fear they may be labelled gay for saying it)