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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby kurpal_v2 » December 29th, 2012, 12:31 pm

rollingstock wrote:Had my son @ 19, he is now a teenager, very soon we will be hitting whore houses together. Was a mistake but i never regret having him.

Only thing i would change would have been being open and honest with my family and my fiance, don't know how to broach the topic now, moms will be angry that i kept teh little natty head from her and will feel robbed of missing out his growing up, don't know how the fiance will take me keeping such a secret for so long.

If only his mother wasn't such a cornt. But he was a good influence in my life, knowing there's someone depending on you really adjusts your life priorities.




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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby Troll » December 29th, 2012, 12:58 pm

Just bull your way to mutually comfortable monogamy as fast as possible.
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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby rfari » December 29th, 2012, 1:08 pm

kurpal_v2 wrote:
rollingstock wrote:Had my son @ 19, he is now a teenager, very soon we will be hitting whore houses together. Was a mistake but i never regret having him.

Only thing i would change would have been being open and honest with my family and my fiance, don't know how to broach the topic now, moms will be angry that i kept teh little natty head from her and will feel robbed of missing out his growing up, don't know how the fiance will take me keeping such a secret for so long.

If only his mother wasn't such a cornt. But he was a good influence in my life, knowing there's someone depending on you really adjusts your life priorities.




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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby rollingstock » December 29th, 2012, 1:22 pm

You be laughing at my son homes?

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby hydroep » December 29th, 2012, 1:22 pm

Hank wrote:How is it possible to have kids young but still live a fun and fulfilling life? Esp people who have had kids before they're 25?

I hear all the time from older folks that they wish they'd had kids younger so they could "hang out" with them, and teach them/etc.

Or would you rather wait until you are financially stable first while getting to know ur gf a few years well?


It depends on what you mean by "fun and fulfilling life". If you're expecting to be as independent and carefree as you were after having kids that's never going to happen...unless of course you're a selfish, self-absorbed, irresponsible person.

I know others for whom having children at an early age gave their life direction and meaning. That is to say they weren't settled with great jobs, house, car etc. but set goals and acquired those material things as they went along. That's part and parcel of "building a family" and they wouldn't have it any other way.

So I guess it's a matter of knowing thyself, and to thine own self be true.

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby rfari » December 29th, 2012, 1:24 pm

rollingstock wrote:You be laughing at my son homes?

No






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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby Ted_v2 » December 29th, 2012, 1:35 pm

rfari wrote:
rollingstock wrote:You be laughing at my son homes?

No






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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby *$kїđž!™ » December 29th, 2012, 1:53 pm

kurpal_v2 wrote:
rollingstock wrote:Had my son @ 19, he is now a teenager, very soon we will be hitting whore houses together. Was a mistake but i never regret having him.

Only thing i would change would have been being open and honest with my family and my fiance, don't know how to broach the topic now, moms will be angry that i kept teh little natty head from her and will feel robbed of missing out his growing up, don't know how the fiance will take me keeping such a secret for so long.

If only his mother wasn't such a cornt. But he was a good influence in my life, knowing there's someone depending on you really adjusts your life priorities.




I love you too daddy :oops:



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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby kurpal_v2 » December 29th, 2012, 1:58 pm

sound boy 64 wrote:
rfari wrote:
rollingstock wrote:You be laughing at my son homes?

No


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Ras boil down yes



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Postby rfari » December 29th, 2012, 2:44 pm

:mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen:

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby Stephon. » December 29th, 2012, 3:57 pm

ABA Trading LTD wrote:make sure your parents alive.
they guh babysit


Yeh this pretty much or a female willing to put up with a lot of your bs if you wanna enjoy yourself with your friends, but this topic ain't make much sense because it depends on the people lives, it can swing either way.

kurpal_v2 wrote:
rollingstock wrote:Had my son @ 19, he is now a teenager, very soon we will be hitting whore houses together. Was a mistake but i never regret having him.

Only thing i would change would have been being open and honest with my family and my fiance, don't know how to broach the topic now, moms will be angry that i kept teh little natty head from her and will feel robbed of missing out his growing up, don't know how the fiance will take me keeping such a secret for so long.

If only his mother wasn't such a cornt. But he was a good influence in my life, knowing there's someone depending on you really adjusts your life priorities.




I love you too daddy :oops:


:lol: :lol: :lol:

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Postby eurogirl » December 30th, 2012, 12:44 am

geodude wrote:I have thought about when, when, when for so long, and considered the same arguments u Ppl are expressing, but at the end of the day I just resigned to when it happen, it happen. Call that George and move on.





Stopped reading after this ..coz this is me !!!!

badthing abt going to a senior comp .. all your friends married with kids ..and u're like a sore thumb without anyone .... :|

I never bother anymore .... what will be wil lbe

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby rollingstock » December 30th, 2012, 1:12 am

^pm pic, may be able to help ;)

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby balenoSport » December 30th, 2012, 1:26 am

lost to all wrote:32, single and no chirren

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Postby S_2NR » December 30th, 2012, 1:42 am

balenoSport wrote:
lost to all wrote:32, single and no chirren

Image


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Postby *$kїđž!™ » December 30th, 2012, 9:25 am

eurogirl wrote:
geodude wrote:I have thought about when, when, when for so long, and considered the same arguments u Ppl are expressing, but at the end of the day I just resigned to when it happen, it happen. Call that George and move on.





Stopped reading after this ..coz this is me !!!!

badthing abt going to a senior comp .. all your friends married with kids ..and u're like a sore thumb without anyone .... :|

I never bother anymore .... what will be wil lbe


rollingstock wrote:^pm pic, may be able to help ;)


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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby eurogirl » December 30th, 2012, 9:33 am

*$kїđž!™ wrote:
eurogirl wrote:
geodude wrote:I have thought about when, when, when for so long, and considered the same arguments u Ppl are expressing, but at the end of the day I just resigned to when it happen, it happen. Call that George and move on.





Stopped reading after this ..coz this is me !!!!

badthing abt going to a senior comp .. all your friends married with kids ..and u're like a sore thumb without anyone .... :|

I never bother anymore .... what will be wil lbe


rollingstock wrote:^pm pic, may be able to help ;)


2012 Tuner awards....MOST HELPFUL TUNER......Rollingstock...... :D




de amt ah man i does see u takin on tuner, I fraid u hand me a schlong and tell me aye I like it MG man style ..

no spanks :bday:

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby shake d livin wake d dead » December 30th, 2012, 10:23 am

kurpal_v2 wrote:
sound boy 64 wrote:
rfari wrote:
rollingstock wrote:You be laughing at my son homes?

No


:-|:-|:-|:-|

Ras boil down yes



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allyuh on rel sheit :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby rollingstock » December 30th, 2012, 12:15 pm

eurogirl wrote:
*$kїđž!™ wrote:
eurogirl wrote:
geodude wrote:I have thought about when, when, when for so long, and considered the same arguments u Ppl are expressing, but at the end of the day I just resigned to when it happen, it happen. Call that George and move on.





Stopped reading after this ..coz this is me !!!!

badthing abt going to a senior comp .. all your friends married with kids ..and u're like a sore thumb without anyone .... :|

I never bother anymore .... what will be wil lbe


rollingstock wrote:^pm pic, may be able to help ;)


2012 Tuner awards....MOST HELPFUL TUNER......Rollingstock...... :D




de amt ah man i does see u takin on tuner, I fraid u hand me a schlong and tell me aye I like it MG man style ..

no spanks :bday:


Omg that is like my fantasy, don`t need the spanks but tug on my chest hairs plz :oops:

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby sMASH » December 30th, 2012, 2:17 pm

i feeling sorry for rs moms. the circumstance might have a lil beat up in the beginning, but all oman like granchilren. dey does go mad.

i met a padnah from primary school, he was 15 when he had his first child. imagine being grand parents in ur 30's and great grand parents in ur 50's.

as said before, there is never a 'best' time, just make sure yuh handle ur responsibilities when it happens, god willing it happens.

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby STORM1234 » December 30th, 2012, 4:03 pm

lost to all wrote:32, single and no chirren


my life is crap by the way! :(

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby S_2NR » December 30th, 2012, 4:17 pm

Emo much?

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby gastly369 » December 30th, 2012, 4:46 pm

S_2NR wrote:Emo much?



THE BETTER HALF OF ME IS DEAD.


i er know wah he tryin to say dey eh buhh :|

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby Stephon. » December 30th, 2012, 5:52 pm

lost to all tool still in plastic and ting

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Postby SUPAstarr » December 30th, 2012, 6:09 pm

One of my teachers once told me, a lot of times older parents jus dont have the energy to cope with their kids, so the children are not disciplined as well, or as strictly, and that younger parents tend to have a greater support network around them to help out. But parents that are too young usually have it the hardest since they have not fully matured themselves, if the responsibility is not taken up by extended family, poor values an discipline follows with a general attention seeking nature.

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Postby STORM1234 » December 31st, 2012, 1:18 pm

balenoSport wrote:
lost to all wrote:32, single and no chirren

Image





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Postby eurogirl » December 31st, 2012, 4:00 pm

Stephon. wrote:lost to all tool still in plastic and ting



Y u so for ?! :lol:

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Postby DJ Q » December 31st, 2012, 4:32 pm

shake d livin wake d dead wrote:Providing you're financially stable by that age,you live in your own house (not renting) and you don't plan on liming,partying and drinking away your money,you should be fine.Personally I'd prefer to wait a while before I have children,children with someone who I cherish,not no accident sheit.


This right here is why people die with regret.

No such thing as the perfect time.

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Re: How possible to have kids young but still have a good li

Postby DJ Q » December 31st, 2012, 4:35 pm

rfari wrote::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:


rfari wrote::-|:-|:-|:-|


rfari wrote::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen:


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Postby Ronaldo95163 » December 31st, 2012, 4:41 pm

Beary Sweet wrote:It's not a bad thing to wait until you are older and more mature to have kids. Most people would probably make better parents at 35 than 20 or 25.



Yup yup and when the child reach STD5...you is 47 :|

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