Success of the Average Guy in Trinidad

S_2NR · Postby **S_2NR** » September 27th, 2014, 10:57 am

src1983 wrote:The guy is young, so all this talk you all giving him will not help him think different. As he gets older an accomplishes his goals. You'll see a thread....

"Where is the best place to have a wedding reception"

In my 20s I never thought about marriage, due to the fact I was working for little money and working 6 days a week.

But as you get older and accomplish more, maturity steps in and you begin to see things differently.

Maslow Hierarchy of needs

Lol no bro.
What advantages are there for a man to getting married?
Besides not being forever alone and fitting in with friends and family.
Also lots of the advantages men crying about in here like having support and encouragement can come without putting a ring on a woman.

Postby **Duane 3NE 2NR** » September 27th, 2014, 11:05 am

Marriage and children are not accomplishments. Taking good care of them are.

S_2NR · Postby **S_2NR** » September 27th, 2014, 1:53 pm

Agreed 100% duane

Morpheus · Postby **Morpheus** » September 27th, 2014, 3:14 pm

Duane 3NE 2NR wrote:Marriage and children are not accomplishments. Taking good care of them are.

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EFFECTIC DESIGNS · Postby **EFFECTIC DESIGNS** » September 28th, 2014, 12:09 am

S_2NR wrote:
Habit7 wrote:Because you sound like a young carefree, living with the help and support of his parents, manboy this society tends to spit out.

Be a man, love and devote your life to a woman (besides your mother), start a family and work like they depend on you, because they do. That is best impetus any man could have to have good career, buy a good car (not a car show car), buy a house, have savings and achieve the greatest success of your life; a lineage that could point back to you and appreciate you.

Its sad when I know so many male friends who think they could only get married when all their ducks in a row, nonsense. Set a course for greatness, get a woman who is willing to commit to the ride, and achieve a wife who will appreciate you not for your stuff but for who you are.

Why do you need a wife to achieve greatness?
And you are assuming this wife will be and stay exactly the way you want her to be forever. Have you seen the divorce statistics recently?
When you have children and get divorced, family court favors women.
Prenups are not valid in trinidad so she takes half of all your sheit and your children.
All to fulfill some girl's dream she had growing up of marriage, kids and a picket fence pushed on her by friends, family and the media.

Duane, my parents and others that age wouldnt have had this problem. It was a different time back then and marriage meant something to the average woman. Look at the stats from back then compared to now.

I mean if you dont want to end up alone or you succumb to social/peer pressure by all means get married man.

I have to agree with this man 100% here.

Look at my brother he get married and was the worst decision he ever made.

About 50% of marriages fail in this country and same with the US. You end up paying lots of money for many many years of your life and a failed dream. Courts favor the woman, and if she go to the police and they find she good to take some wood, some woman so wicked they go sleep with the police man and have he beat you and terrorize you out of spite and thing. This actually happened to a man that I knew as a matter of fact.

Women are just like a hard drive, sometimes you get one to last 8 years and sometimes you get one last 1 month. Some dead on arrival, woman is just like that its a chance. Divorce is just waiting to happen its like cancer, some never have to worry about it and some it was always gonna happen sooner or later anyways.