South soap opera nonsense...

[AllTrac]

for the children, but if it was my issue, and i stayed in it for the kids, it would be an arrangement type marriage after that.

[Sky]

No matter the reason/excuse for a horn. A horn passing means there's something VERY wrong with the relationship. And if anyone try to salvage it, the hornee will now have the upper hand with EVERYTHING and the horner under constant watch. Trust gone out the window, and I mean both ways, because if you do it and i forgive you, then I could do it and you have to forgive me too.

From a dead piggyleeks to no communication or ego, It all leads back the the relationship being in a mess, and a horn gonna triple the problems the couple already have. Take yuh horn/kickout/hard slap/chop/drain wallet and buss it. And that goes for both parties.

[Mr. Red Sleeper]

Thats just a straight case of "how much yuh love"...
sheit happens.....What you do about it is entirely a personal decision.

I've seen men decide that whatever the cost, they staying with their wife/childmother..


i then felt sorry for the husband and ended it...

[~*Pãñdorą*~]

No matter the reason/excuse for a horn. A horn passing means there's something VERY wrong with the relationship. And if anyone try to salvage it, the hornee will now have the upper hand with EVERYTHING and the horner under constant watch. Trust gone out the window, and I mean both ways, because if you do it and i forgive you, then I could do it and you have to forgive me too.

From a dead piggyleeks to no communication or ego, It all leads back the the relationship being in a mess, and a horn gonna triple the problems the couple already have.
Take yuh horn/kickout/hard slap/chop/drain wallet and buss it. And that goes for both parties.

Horn passing don't always mean something wrong with the relationship..
Some people (men AND women) are just nymphos!! And no matter how good they get it home, they want whatever they could get outside too.

[Sky]

^^ Well that means that is the problem in the relationship. The hornee get involved with someone who can't keep their drawz on. And they're not ready for monogamy. So the horner needs to be single to continue their habit.

[Chimera]

No matter the reason/excuse for a horn. A horn passing means there's something VERY wrong with the relationship. And if anyone try to salvage it, the hornee will now have the upper hand with EVERYTHING and the horner under constant watch. Trust gone out the window, and I mean both ways, because if you do it and i forgive you, then I could do it and you have to forgive me too.

From a dead piggyleeks to no communication or ego, It all leads back the the relationship being in a mess, and a horn gonna triple the problems the couple already have.
Take yuh horn/kickout/hard slap/chop/drain wallet and buss it. And that goes for both parties.

Horn passing don't always mean something wrong with the relationship..
Some people (men AND women) are just nymphos!! And no matter how good they get it home, they want whatever they could get outside too.

i agree with pandora , marriage could be however perfect , wife could be bess,smart,good in bed, good cook, good with the children, have a good job, the man could still want a outside thing just because its the forbidden fruit.

[~*Pãñdorą*~]

I would list that as a problem with the individual!

[AllTrac]

I should let the ladies of 2nr know, I for one am not like that

[Mr. Red Sleeper]

Although i agree that it may not always be that something is very wrong to warrant a horn, it has also been noted that ppl just want different/alternatives....Not reall y that they're nymphos, they just have that gene that makes them want variety. Learning process maybe.

Some older guys told me that one of the main reasons is insecurity on the horners part. Their ego makes them want to look elsewhere to prove to themselves that they still have it and can do it and even get away with it.
All stupid reasons in my book but to each his own.

fact is tho, that in a society like our own and most westerners for that matter, outside Sex is often a viable option that can very very easily be accomplished , married or not. On both male and female sides, no one respects what marriage is anymore and therefore, alot of marriages wont work simply because the temptation for opting for outside is very common and it can and will happen.

Sadly, marriage is an outdated custom IMO and like everything else in life that is governed by rules, these rules have to change to adapt to current trends as stated above.

[Sky]

I would list that as a problem with the individual!

It is, and that deems them unfit to be in a committed relationship. So UDFR for them.

[~*Pãñdorą*~]

Although i agree that it may not always be that something is very wrong to warrant a horn, it has also been noted that ppl just want different/alternatives....Not reall y that they're nymphos, they just have that gene that makes them want variety. Learning process maybe.

Some older guys told me that one of the main reasons is insecurity on the horners part. Their ego makes them want to look elsewhere to prove to themselves that they still have it and can do it and even get away with it.
All stupid reasons in my book but to each his own.

fact is tho, that in a society like our own and most westerners for that matter, outside Sex is often a viable option that can very very easily be accomplished , married or not. On both male and female sides, no one respects what marriage is anymore and therefore, alot of marriages wont work simply because the temptation for opting for outside is very common and it can and will happen.

Sadly, marriage is an outdated custom IMO and like everything else in life that is governed by rules, these rules have to change to adapt to current trends as stated above.

If you were to get married again..
What are some of the rules you'd change?

[Shango_13]

[AllTrac]

so just one horn allyuh cyah forgive? stewps....
if yuh marrid yuh cyah try to work dat out?

nah gyal, pressure on dat horn forgiveness front

[Mr. Red Sleeper]

Although i agree that it may not always be that something is very wrong to warrant a horn, it has also been noted that ppl just want different/alternatives....Not reall y that they're nymphos, they just have that gene that makes them want variety. Learning process maybe.

Some older guys told me that one of the main reasons is insecurity on the horners part. Their ego makes them want to look elsewhere to prove to themselves that they still have it and can do it and even get away with it.
All stupid reasons in my book but to each his own.

fact is tho, that in a society like our own and most westerners for that matter, outside Sex is often a viable option that can very very easily be accomplished , married or not. On both male and female sides, no one respects what marriage is anymore and therefore, alot of marriages wont work simply because the temptation for opting for outside is very common and it can and will happen.

Sadly, marriage is an outdated custom IMO and like everything else in life that is governed by rules, these rules have to change to adapt to current trends as stated above.

If you were to get married again..
What are some of the rules you'd change?

If, as in a big if,id change as follows:

Not marry an indian
Dont go out ever again
Probably turn ghey
send all indian women to carrera
remove Banzai's post from earlier today
zdtv is out of the question if not tv on the whole
join a church.....one of them that you go to every evening
Change all of my friends and some of my family
quit drinking smoking and any and all other forms of recreation
No way to trinituner/fb/ and other internet websites
give all my money to charity
will definately have to change jobs.
Remove my eyes.
the list goes on....

Question right back to you

[~*Pãñdorą*~]

So is it safe to say AllTrac and Sky that you guys subscribe to the fact that..
Once a cheater always a cheater?

[brainchild]

No matter how it happen or what d circumstances i cah take ah horn....i too jealous...imagination too vivid....i'll be in a permanent bad mood so it wouldn't work out anyway.

[Mr. Red Sleeper]

So is it safe to say AllTrac and Sky that you guys subscribe to the fact that..
Once a cheater always a cheater?

Its not cheating if you arent in a "serious" relationship!

[AllTrac]

So is it safe to say AllTrac and Sky that you guys subscribe to the fact that..
Once a cheater always a cheater?

no i dont subscribe to that, but i agree with sky that once horn pass, there is nothing to save or patch up. I cyar take ah horn

[crazybalhead]

*pictures Trac running up and down the SMR beating chess with half empty stallion bottle in hand, rain is falling, masking the tears as he shouts, "Why!!!??? OH GORD!!! WHY YUH HORN MEH???!! OHHH GOOOOOOOORRRRRRRRD!!!"

[brainchild]

So is it safe to say AllTrac and Sky that you guys subscribe to the fact that..
Once a cheater always a cheater?

It really depends on how serious the relationship is....but either way i believe ppl can change....i have! So a man might horn one woman for different reasons, but another come and handling her business and he done at dat for life.

[~*Pãñdorą*~]

Although i agree that it may not always be that something is very wrong to warrant a horn, it has also been noted that ppl just want different/alternatives....Not reall y that they're nymphos, they just have that gene that makes them want variety. Learning process maybe.

Some older guys told me that one of the main reasons is insecurity on the horners part. Their ego makes them want to look elsewhere to prove to themselves that they still have it and can do it and even get away with it.
All stupid reasons in my book but to each his own.

fact is tho, that in a society like our own and most westerners for that matter, outside Sex is often a viable option that can very very easily be accomplished , married or not. On both male and female sides, no one respects what marriage is anymore and therefore, alot of marriages wont work simply because the temptation for opting for outside is very common and it can and will happen.

Sadly, marriage is an outdated custom IMO and like everything else in life that is governed by rules, these rules have to change to adapt to current trends as stated above.

If you were to get married again..
What are some of the rules you'd change?

If, as in a big if,id change as follows:

Not marry an indian
Dont go out ever again
Probably turn ghey
send all indian women to carrera
remove Banzai's post from earlier today
zdtv is out of the question if not tv on the whole
join a church.....one of them that you go to every evening
Change all of my friends and some of my family
quit drinking smoking and any and all other forms of recreation
No way to trinituner/fb/ and other internet websites
give all my money to charity
will definately have to change jobs.
Remove my eyes.
the list goes on....

Question right back to you

New rules for marriage?
Hmmmmm..

-Always make time for each other if it's for a quickie, for lunch or just to sit and have a cup of tea with each other.
-Keep my friends as MY friends and go out with them every now and then.. And vice versa... As well as have mutual friends.
-NEVER live with in-laws, neither his nor mine.. the 3rd party thing as elite put it.. dangerous for husband/wife relations
-Keep my earnings mine.. and spend his actually whomever brings in the bigger income pays most bills while the other puts towards saving and entertainment or something so.

Just to name a few..

[crazybalhead]

That never live with in laws is a serious serious thing.

[~*Pãñdorą*~]

So is it safe to say AllTrac and Sky that you guys subscribe to the fact that..
Once a cheater always a cheater?

no i dont subscribe to that, but i agree with sky that once horn pass, there is nothing to save or patch up. I cyar take ah horn

No matter how it happen or what d circumstances i cah take ah horn....i too jealous...imagination too vivid....i'll be in a permanent bad mood so it wouldn't work out anyway.

I totally understand..
I had this uhmm gf.. who buss horn 'pon horn on she husband and was fine.. then the day she find out she get horn.. was all kinda fyaz was geed!

[crazybalhead]

Eh heh?

[Mr. Red Sleeper]

inlaws....Very serious.

The quickies should be mandatory.
I dont see why the your friends/ my friends should be an issue. That can lead to either party feeling a bit left out/jealous/ suspicious, etc., as well as that only works out well for the wives. We all know it. Cause when i decide i going to hang with my "friends", the bachanaal now start. Especially if the friends you liming with are like the one you so vividly described above..

[16 cycles]

-Keep my earnings mine.. and spend his actually whomever brings in the bigger income pays most bills while the other puts towards saving and entertainment or somethin

fiscal management and monetary allocations should be joint decisions.....

[~*Pãñdorą*~]

I dont see why the your friends/ my friends should be an issue. That can lead to either party feeling a bit left out/jealous/ suspicious, etc., as well as that only works out well for the wives. We all know it. Cause when i decide i going to hang with my "friends", the bachanaal now start.

Believe me.. keeping some of you friends YOURS is a must. Nothing worse than your woman calling your best guy friend up and regaling him about how your dick was semi hard the other night during sex and so she want to know if she getting horn.

Lines need to be drawn.. My friends are not to be contacted by you.. unless you can't find me and you think I'm in a ditch somewhere!

As for liming.. I beg my current bf to go hang with his guy friends.. 1) because I hate having to entertain him 100% of the time, because I want my alone time too.. so that's where your guy friends come in. 2) have you seen the movie I love you man?! ROFL.. a guy and girl must always maintain their social interactions with people other than their SO otherwise they becomes these little drones whoe only know their SO's and their way of liming and their way of chatting and blah blah blah.. DRONES I tell you@@ Drones!!

[~*Pãñdorą*~]

-Keep my earnings mine.. and spend his actually whomever brings in the bigger income pays most bills while the other puts towards saving and entertainment or somethin

fiscal management and monetary allocations should be joint decisions.....

Yes joint decisions but aloocations should be based on salary earnings per person. Nothing worse than a man making twice what I am but wants me to go half and half on EVERY bill and expense! I would have to wonder about the rent our children accrued in my womb! lol.. j/k

[AllTrac]

You people make marriage sound like a mistake....

not really, its just always a work in progress, some couples thingk that once they tie the knot they have achieved it, every year u are together is an achievement and work starts asap on the next year

[~*Pãñdorą*~]

You people make marriage sound like a mistake....

The mistake is actually the choice of spouse most of the time..
Not the actual act..