Postby A33_BZ » July 5th, 2012, 11:59 pm
My Final speech to my wife on her funeral day -
Good Afternoon Everyone,
First of all I would like to thank our families, love ones and friends that came out today to celebrate the life and pay their respects to my loving wife Stacy Singh. Stacy Singh was born on November 13th 1984, was one of Gods angels that was sent into this world for a reason. She was one of God’s Gems. Everyone comes in this world for a reason but she was different. She always had this glow and smile that I never saw on anyone before. I remember the first time I met her, which was about 9 years ago, I came in by her mother’s shop to buy a potato roti and when I saw her, it was like love at first site. I started to come almost every day to buy roti even though I never was a fan of eating roti everyday, don’t get me wrong, it use to taste really good. Her mom use to tell me Dinesh, we only sell potato roti 2 times for the week but she never knew the real reason behind it. We became friends and use to carry about our conversations about life and where we will end up in life, never knowing that one day we will meet again. After about a year we ended up going separate ways due to schooling and jobs. I use to pop in the shop once in awhile to see if I saw her but she was hardly there. Then after about almost three years past, we met again so sudden that not only I but she was shocked when we saw each other. There is where it all happened, we were friends at first, came companions and ended up getting married and having a wonderful daughter, Sariah Chelsea Singh. What I would like to say is that, we never planned our life together but god works in ways to show that we were meant for each other. I remember she telling me all the time, look how God works, we never knew we would end up together and that she found her soul mate that she was asking God for. She loved with a passion, when she loves someone; she gives out her heart and soul to that person. She was a strong minded person, very passionate in anything that she’s doing and always wanting to do more for a brighter future for her family. When we had our Baby girl on May 1 2007, that was Stacy’s most happiest moment in her life. She lived and worked only for our daughter. Nothing else mattered in her life except being a good wife and mother to her family. She would go to the extent to give her all to us. She loved all her family very much. She never liked if anyone of her family or friends ever being upset with her, she would take it to heart. She rather go an extra mile for someone, as some would know, just to make them happy and putting herself second. God sent Stacy in this world to show everyone that nothing can hold you back in life. Stacy accomplished so much in her time on earth. She found what everyone looks for in life, their soulmate, marriage, became a mother, and became successful in life. She even went on by starting a degree programme which she recently finished her first year with all A’s and B’s and this fall was going on to her second year. What Im trying to say is that, she showed us an example with her life, that you can do it once you put your mind to it. She was a very determined person and loving. I know everyone here stacy has touched you in different ways, rather it be from her good manners, discipline, her sense of humour, her loving voice, her loving ways about her.. I can go on and on… I for one knows she is my best friend, my soulmate, my love of my life, my daughters mother and the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Now on this day, she was taken from me, I cried so many tears, until my body couldn’t produce no more tears and my heart started to cry inside. It hurts me so much that she is gone and left back our daughter and me here on this world. But I know God wanted his angel back and sent her in this world for her time. Sometimes I wake up thinking this is all a dream, calling her name out loud and I get no response back, but I hear her within me, saying babes, u know I always love you and would never stop loving you and our daughter no matter what and that I will always be there for both of you. Our daughter is everything she lived for and I promised her that I will always give her my all. Stacy was taken from us to soon but I know she is at a better place now with god in her arms and smiling down upon my daughter, myself, her family and friends. She is my angel, my best friend, my lover, my wife, my everything . She left back with me her bundle of joy, her pride, her reason for living, her daughter and that is all I have left and our memories together. I promise you baby, I will take care of her to the best that I can and everything you wanted her to be, I will guide her to do so. Sariah and I love you Babes, and we will forever love you and you will never be forgotten. You will be in our hearts until we meet again. I know you will be watching over us and keeping us safe. Today I don’t want it to be looked upon the funeral of my wife but it to be looked upon the Celebration of her life that she given each one of us and touched so many hearts. Rest in Peace my Love.
Additional Info on what took place:
Stacy was born on November 13th 1984 and left us on July 1st 2012, which made her 27years, she had an illness called Lupus, and it is a terrible thing to have but she fought and fought it out..until about 3 weeks ago where i rushed her to the hospital and they got her stable after about 3days..she was recovering well, with some ups and downs but we was seeing improvements, then just last friday evening, we went and saw her during visiting hours which she turned and told us, hey im coming home Sunday, which was july 1st and she can't wait...the saturday b4 the sunday, we came to visit her in the evening and she looked a bit down but she told me and the family, its okie, everything will be fine..i will fight it....her sister deiced to call the doctors to make sure everything was okie abt a hour after, when they told us to come back in due to complications and from there everything when downfall..she was down by the seconds living and was still fighting for her family...until God couldnt let her suffer anymore and took us from her, she did tell us she was coming home sunday which would of been July 1st, the same day she past away, God had already told her she was coming home, but home to him, he wanted his angel back.....baby i know u left us but i know you have no more suffering and pain to go thru..you accomplished soo much, while dealing with this illness throughout your life and never let it put u down..u are a true inspiration to anyone..Love u !!!
I went to the store twice before. I wonder if she ever served me in there before?
