So been researching lots and here is what i came up with.
The 4age blacktop will put out about 120-125 whp stock
With CAI, 2.5" exhaust,255lph fuel pump,SAFC, plugs and some tuning should put out about 135-140whp. Avg cost $3500.00 Which should put me into a 15 sec run considering the weight of my car.
Total cost $10500.00
The 4efte however will put out about 100whp stock
With Bigger injectors, FMIC, SAFC, Boost controller, BOV, 255LPH fuel pump, 2.5" exhaust, stock turbo and tuning on regular 95 octane gas. Avg cost $5000.00 should put out about 150-155 whp with moderate tuning for everyday use and about 170 whp with c16 and radical tuning

High 14sec 1/4 mile
Total cost $11000.00
So the decision is pretty hard cuz most places just offering just a start up warranty on the fte as its turbo but i getting 1 month on the blacktop. Then i have to consider the cost of maintainence as turbo engines should cost a little more but blacktop parts are pretty scarce.
Giving the 4efte hunt one more try and if not well then i will have to prove to those honda guys what the 20v can do
What u guys think?