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Haha you keeping tabs on me.Strugglerzinc wrote:How should a man deal with rejection/ horn in a relationship.
Bad decisions people make in their 20's..
Are Venezuelans allowed to have?
Is there anything to be Happy about in Trinidad right now?
Would you spend your money to take care of a next man's child?
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88sins wrote:Depends.
If he dead and the kid young enough that they' never knew him, sure. Because the kid deserves a good father figure.
If the kid old enough to know I am not his father and develop an attitude, no thanks.
If the father alive and just wutless and the kid big, hell no. I don't go through my life looking for complications
goalpost wrote:Meh
My wife was married before and had two young kids. We now have two other kids. Everything i do, is for the four of them. The eldest one, spending a setta money on her form 6 studies, the 2nd one, bussing my arse with her because she has SEA next year, and the two that are biologically mine are still pretty young.
While true, you may feel differently when it is your own flesh and blood, when i die all my money will be divided equally amongst the 4 of them. They are all my kids.
matr1x wrote:Only a cuck would do that. Let the other man mind his spawn. In fact he hadda take the child too
S_2NR wrote:hell no.
once i hear a woman has a child, i go in the opposite direction.
the less baggage the better.
RedVEVO wrote:S_2NR wrote:hell no.
once i hear a woman has a child, i go in the opposite direction.
the less baggage the better.
So why would you be with a woman if not for marriage and/or a family and success in a progressive manner ?
Display to us what it is to be a "man" who "thinks" or refuses to pay for maintenance and accept responsibility.
Talk to us player
We always hear the woman side NOW let us her the other women side
S_2NR wrote:RedVEVO wrote:S_2NR wrote:hell no.
once i hear a woman has a child, i go in the opposite direction.
the less baggage the better.
So why would you be with a woman if not for marriage and/or a family and success in a progressive manner ?
Display to us what it is to be a "man" who "thinks" or refuses to pay for maintenance and accept responsibility.
Talk to us player
We always hear the woman side NOW let us her the other women side
I am interested in women for marriage and a family. However, I have no interest in taking care of another man child or dealing with baggage that comes along with that. As someone who doesn't have that baggage myself, why would I subscribe to that.
No idea how "maintenance" or "accepting responsibility" come into this but I'll accept full responsibility for MY children, not someone else's.
sam1978 wrote:I would help take care of a child even if it’s not mine and I’m not with the mother. A break from early could change a child’s fortunes in life later on.
j.o.e wrote:Not ideal but it happens. I’d prefer not to have the responsibility without the respect. I can’t handle spending my money for someone to tell me “you is not even my fadda !!!” When I try to discipline them.
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