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matr1x wrote:Also when you retire, hobbies keep your mind sharp.
You don't want to be and old man with his mouth open, not knowing what to do with yourself.
I would kill myself. Because at that stage you half way dead already
De Dragon wrote:matr1x wrote:Also when you retire, hobbies keep your mind sharp.
You don't want to be and old man with his mouth open, not knowing what to do with yourself.
I would kill myself. Because at that stage you half way dead already
Studies show that mind stimulation activities like crossword puzzles can help prevent dementia in later life, so don't wait until retirement.
De Dragon wrote:matr1x wrote:Also when you retire, hobbies keep your mind sharp.
You don't want to be and old man with his mouth open, not knowing what to do with yourself.
I would kill myself. Because at that stage you half way dead already
Studies show that mind stimulation activities like crossword puzzles can help prevent dementia in later life, so don't wait until retirement.
MaxPower wrote:Team,
What ever your choices are or were,
Eat clean, exercise, surround yourself with positive people and energy but most of all....pray.
Haven’t spoken to God in years? That’s ok, start now.
Try not to be too hard on yourself for what you could and could not do in the past.
MaxPower wrote:Team,
What ever your choices are or were,
Eat clean, exercise, surround yourself with positive people and energy but most of all....pray.
Haven’t spoken to God in years? That’s ok, start now.
Try not to be too hard on yourself for what you could and could not do in the past.
Great advice here. Some parents spend their last dollar on their children and when they get older, children abandon them and threat them like crap. Sometimes it makes sense to enjoy yourself a little bit before making kids.mad wrote:Most important thing in Life is?.......................TIME.
What you do with it determines the life you live.
We have a limited time on earth, spend it wisely; you are not sure if you will live for tomorrow so be grateful you are here today.
Live today like if is your last BUT prepare for tomorrow.
Always do what makes you happy, whether is alco, cig (not too much obviously), women, beach, travel, hard pong, fast car, fast bike, reading, gym, feteing, carnival and the list goes on. But make sure keep your health in check.
Don't criticize or compare yourself to others.
You might prefer to spend your time and travel the world whilst someone else might get joy in working on a "project car". To each his own. Always remember that.
Always remember your youth is valuable. That 20-30 year bracket will never come again. There are some things you can do in these years that you will not be able to do it in your 40's. I know quite a lot of people who regret not enjoying their youth. So make sure and enjoy these years and do what makes you happy. Most important if you have partying and "feteing all night" in your bucket list. This is the age bracket to do it. In remember back in my 20's, I partied from Carnival Saturday (Feteing) straight to Carnival Tuesdays on the streets playing mas without sleep and I normal back out to work Ash Wednesday. And now if I make just one "all night" partying I need ah two/three days to recover.
With respect to children. Always remember as a parent you "provide" for your children. When they turn 20 they are going to start their own family and leave you out, to focus on their own. I see some parents put all their effort in their children that they forget about their own well-being and life. So whether you want to have children in your 20's, 30's or 40's it don't matter once you enjoy your life. Don't compare your situation against others. I know of some people who had children in their early 20's and children move out. They in their 40's now trying to party and live like if they 20 but to no avail. Their bodies will not allow them too. But most important they are happy and that is the key. Don't be like some parents who never lived their life and children move out and only check on them via phone-call. Trust me they are plenty.
wtf wrote:Great advice here. Some parents spend their last dollar on their children and when they get older, children abandon them and threat them like crap. Sometimes it makes sense to enjoy yourself a little bit before making kids.mad wrote:Most important thing in Life is?.......................TIME.
What you do with it determines the life you live.
We have a limited time on earth, spend it wisely; you are not sure if you will live for tomorrow so be grateful you are here today.
Live today like if is your last BUT prepare for tomorrow.
Always do what makes you happy, whether is alco, cig (not too much obviously), women, beach, travel, hard pong, fast car, fast bike, reading, gym, feteing, carnival and the list goes on. But make sure keep your health in check.
Don't criticize or compare yourself to others.
You might prefer to spend your time and travel the world whilst someone else might get joy in working on a "project car". To each his own. Always remember that.
Always remember your youth is valuable. That 20-30 year bracket will never come again. There are some things you can do in these years that you will not be able to do it in your 40's. I know quite a lot of people who regret not enjoying their youth. So make sure and enjoy these years and do what makes you happy. Most important if you have partying and "feteing all night" in your bucket list. This is the age bracket to do it. In remember back in my 20's, I partied from Carnival Saturday (Feteing) straight to Carnival Tuesdays on the streets playing mas without sleep and I normal back out to work Ash Wednesday. And now if I make just one "all night" partying I need ah two/three days to recover.
With respect to children. Always remember as a parent you "provide" for your children. When they turn 20 they are going to start their own family and leave you out, to focus on their own. I see some parents put all their effort in their children that they forget about their own well-being and life. So whether you want to have children in your 20's, 30's or 40's it don't matter once you enjoy your life. Don't compare your situation against others. I know of some people who had children in their early 20's and children move out. They in their 40's now trying to party and live like if they 20 but to no avail. Their bodies will not allow them too. But most important they are happy and that is the key. Don't be like some parents who never lived their life and children move out and only check on them via phone-call. Trust me they are plenty.
Gladiator wrote:wtf wrote:What are some bad decisions, actions and behaviors that people make in their 20's that affect their lives later on?
Hooking up with a fat chick and remaining with she for 10 years...like some bloke on tuner LOL
mad wrote:Most important thing in Life is?.......................TIME.
What you do with it determines the life you live.
We have a limited time on earth, spend it wisely; you are not sure if you will live for tomorrow so be grateful you are here today.
Live today like if is your last BUT prepare for tomorrow.
Always do what makes you happy, whether is alco, cig (not too much obviously), women, beach, travel, hard pong, fast car, fast bike, reading, gym, feteing, carnival and the list goes on. But make sure keep your health in check.
Don't criticize or compare yourself to others.
You might prefer to spend your time and travel the world whilst someone else might get joy in working on a "project car". To each his own. Always remember that.
Always remember your youth is valuable. That 20-30 year bracket will never come again. There are some things you can do in these years that you will not be able to do it in your 40's. I know quite a lot of people who regret not enjoying their youth. So make sure and enjoy these years and do what makes you happy. Most important if you have partying and "feteing all night" in your bucket list. This is the age bracket to do it. In remember back in my 20's, I partied from Carnival Saturday (Feteing) straight to Carnival Tuesdays on the streets playing mas without sleep and I normal back out to work Ash Wednesday. And now if I make just one "all night" partying I need ah two/three days to recover.
With respect to children. Always remember as a parent you "provide" for your children. When they turn 20 they are going to start their own family and leave you out, to focus on their own. I see some parents put all their effort in their children that they forget about their own well-being and life. So whether you want to have children in your 20's, 30's or 40's it don't matter once you enjoy your life. Don't compare your situation against others. I know of some people who had children in their early 20's and children move out. They in their 40's now trying to party and live like if they 20 but to no avail. Their bodies will not allow them too. But most important they are happy and that is the key. Don't be like some parents who never lived their life and children move out and only check on them via phone-call. Trust me they are plenty.
Dohplaydat wrote:mad wrote:Most important thing in Life is?.......................TIME.
What you do with it determines the life you live.
We have a limited time on earth, spend it wisely; you are not sure if you will live for tomorrow so be grateful you are here today.
Live today like if is your last BUT prepare for tomorrow.
Always do what makes you happy, whether is alco, cig (not too much obviously), women, beach, travel, hard pong, fast car, fast bike, reading, gym, feteing, carnival and the list goes on. But make sure keep your health in check.
Don't criticize or compare yourself to others.
You might prefer to spend your time and travel the world whilst someone else might get joy in working on a "project car". To each his own. Always remember that.
Always remember your youth is valuable. That 20-30 year bracket will never come again. There are some things you can do in these years that you will not be able to do it in your 40's. I know quite a lot of people who regret not enjoying their youth. So make sure and enjoy these years and do what makes you happy. Most important if you have partying and "feteing all night" in your bucket list. This is the age bracket to do it. In remember back in my 20's, I partied from Carnival Saturday (Feteing) straight to Carnival Tuesdays on the streets playing mas without sleep and I normal back out to work Ash Wednesday. And now if I make just one "all night" partying I need ah two/three days to recover.
With respect to children. Always remember as a parent you "provide" for your children. When they turn 20 they are going to start their own family and leave you out, to focus on their own. I see some parents put all their effort in their children that they forget about their own well-being and life. So whether you want to have children in your 20's, 30's or 40's it don't matter once you enjoy your life. Don't compare your situation against others. I know of some people who had children in their early 20's and children move out. They in their 40's now trying to party and live like if they 20 but to no avail. Their bodies will not allow them too. But most important they are happy and that is the key. Don't be like some parents who never lived their life and children move out and only check on them via phone-call. Trust me they are plenty.
This, I was a tied-down mooks in my early 20s due to being a girl who didn't like carnival and parties.
It's been over 10 years since we done and I have partied so much, but also worked hard too. Studied and worked abroad, very competent in my field. Still so some consultancy on the side, but now I own a couple of businesses that do well enough.
No kids yet, but that will happen before I turn 40.
Live your life according to you. There is no right path. My friend is a surgeon who hates his life, but everyone seeing his life (rich, wife and kids) would think he 'made it'. He envies me.
But remember the grass is always, don't fall into the trap of comparing yourselves to others. You do you.
Just don't get addicted to drugs and be lazy, that's all the advice I have.
Oh and buy cyrpto cuz them things have at least 10-50X growth still left.
What kind of business you have and what type of consultant are you? What industry?Dohplaydat wrote:mad wrote:Most important thing in Life is?.......................TIME.
What you do with it determines the life you live.
We have a limited time on earth, spend it wisely; you are not sure if you will live for tomorrow so be grateful you are here today.
Live today like if is your last BUT prepare for tomorrow.
Always do what makes you happy, whether is alco, cig (not too much obviously), women, beach, travel, hard pong, fast car, fast bike, reading, gym, feteing, carnival and the list goes on. But make sure keep your health in check.
Don't criticize or compare yourself to others.
You might prefer to spend your time and travel the world whilst someone else might get joy in working on a "project car". To each his own. Always remember that.
Always remember your youth is valuable. That 20-30 year bracket will never come again. There are some things you can do in these years that you will not be able to do it in your 40's. I know quite a lot of people who regret not enjoying their youth. So make sure and enjoy these years and do what makes you happy. Most important if you have partying and "feteing all night" in your bucket list. This is the age bracket to do it. In remember back in my 20's, I partied from Carnival Saturday (Feteing) straight to Carnival Tuesdays on the streets playing mas without sleep and I normal back out to work Ash Wednesday. And now if I make just one "all night" partying I need ah two/three days to recover.
With respect to children. Always remember as a parent you "provide" for your children. When they turn 20 they are going to start their own family and leave you out, to focus on their own. I see some parents put all their effort in their children that they forget about their own well-being and life. So whether you want to have children in your 20's, 30's or 40's it don't matter once you enjoy your life. Don't compare your situation against others. I know of some people who had children in their early 20's and children move out. They in their 40's now trying to party and live like if they 20 but to no avail. Their bodies will not allow them too. But most important they are happy and that is the key. Don't be like some parents who never lived their life and children move out and only check on them via phone-call. Trust me they are plenty.
This, I was a tied-down mooks in my early 20s due to being with a girl who didn't like carnival and parties.
It's been over 10 years since we done and I have partied so much, but also worked hard too. Studied and worked abroad, very competent in my field. Still so some consultancy on the side, but now I own a couple of businesses that do well enough.
No kids yet, but that will happen before I turn 40.
Live your life according to you. There is no right path. My friend is a surgeon who hates his life, but everyone seeing his life (rich, wife and kids) would think he 'made it'. He envies me.
But remember the grass is always, don't fall into the trap of comparing yourselves to others. You do you.
Just don't get addicted to drugs and be lazy, that's all the advice I have.
Oh and buy cyrpto cuz them things have at least 10-50X growth still left.
wtf wrote:What kind of business you have and what type of consultant are you? What industry?
mragoobir wrote:Sh!!!!T,in my early 20's "23" i done had two kids, we still went an party,lime, fete,but not every weekend,now in my late 30's,an kidds in their late teens already chozen which career they want to go foward with in their life, as for me,housecars children close to RIDDIN OUTit dont get much better than this,so i just ask GOD for health and stength an thanks for his Guidance
This was not my Decision or my Plan, but the fact iz Life Happens an we are all here to Live it so go Brave
#noregret
I was thinking the same thing..ProtonPowder wrote:mragoobir wrote:Sh!!!!T,in my early 20's "23" i done had two kids, we still went an party,lime, fete,but not every weekend,now in my late 30's,an kidds in their late teens already chozen which career they want to go foward with in their life, as for me,housecars children close to RIDDIN OUTit dont get much better than this,so i just ask GOD for health and stength an thanks for his Guidance
This was not my Decision or my Plan, but the fact iz Life Happens an we are all here to Live it so go Brave
#noregret
Children in their late teens close to riding out? You probably not living in trinidad then
What are you saying. Dont get married too early? What is your definition of enjoyment in your 20s and 30s?lalloboy101 wrote:early 40's male here, I made a lot of choice in life that i regret . I was married at 21, met my then wife at 19. I have a daughter now who attends university. I never got the opportunity to enjoy my 20's or even 30's, it was always when i have my own home or have this or that I would be happy. My advice to you younger guys never wait, live in the moment
But now I exercise almost everyday, eat mostly clean and i had admit im now in my best shape i have ever been.
Do not get married period.wtf wrote:What are you saying. Dont get married too early? What is your definition of enjoyment in your 20s and 30s?lalloboy101 wrote:early 40's male here, I made a lot of choice in life that i regret . I was married at 21, met my then wife at 19. I have a daughter now who attends university. I never got the opportunity to enjoy my 20's or even 30's, it was always when i have my own home or have this or that I would be happy. My advice to you younger guys never wait, live in the moment
But now I exercise almost everyday, eat mostly clean and i had admit im now in my best shape i have ever been.
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