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Search "My Dearest Ex" on Facebook. You'll get it..j.o.e wrote:Is only me can’t see that link or wha ?
j.o.e wrote:Is only me can’t see that link or wha ?
j.o.e wrote:Wow. Husband should really feel shame, a whole rant dedicated to the ex..... pretty sure he could beat it out if he want. If I was ex man I’d be laughing to myself.
pugboy wrote:wha part of trini have accent that does say "proabalem" ?
pugboy wrote:wha part of trini have accent that does say "proabalem" ?
I fully understand this, FULLY
Dohplaydat wrote:Need to ask a question for a friend in an odd position.
The guy got hooked to a married woman. Apparently, it was a rel intense 2 month affair. However, as soon as the wife get catch, she block the man and pretending it never happened.
Now this was over a year now, and the man still not over she. In fact, he dating a rel sweet girl now but he constantly complaining he missing the married chick.
Backstory - he crushing on this married chick since highschool and this married woman is sweet for days so the fuss is worth it to him.
But the man is mess, he'll get drunk and break down and start cussing about she then crying.
Obviously, we trying to get him to accept reality, but this guy like he got overly hung up on and I'm 99% sure his new gf will end their relationship soon.
How to help this soldier? he's a good guy, I hate to see him end up in this situation.
88sins wrote:bluefete wrote:OP: Take care you doh end up in a video like this, eh:
It is not embedding but you MUST watch:
My Dearest EX:
https://www.facebook.com/10371678516529 ... 7181973013
What she mean she "dry ass"?
88sins wrote:Dohplaydat wrote:Need to ask a question for a friend in an odd position.
The guy got hooked to a married woman. Apparently, it was a rel intense 2 month affair. However, as soon as the wife get catch, she block the man and pretending it never happened.
Now this was over a year now, and the man still not over she. In fact, he dating a rel sweet girl now but he constantly complaining he missing the married chick.
Backstory - he crushing on this married chick since highschool and this married woman is sweet for days so the fuss is worth it to him.
But the man is mess, he'll get drunk and break down and start cussing about she then crying.
Obviously, we trying to get him to accept reality, but this guy like he got overly hung up on and I'm 99% sure his new gf will end their relationship soon.
How to help this soldier? he's a good guy, I hate to see him end up in this situation.
He sounds like a b!tch. So, he didn't realize that the possibility existed that he could get leave out? Smmfh
Anyways, you got two options
Option A
Set him down and show him how he is being stupid by not understanding what he was doing getting involved with a married person, and what he meant to her. Show him how he practically screwing up his life for a woman who simply doesn't want him and never really did, and jeopardizing his relationship with the new gf. Also, dude need to get some closure, and the best way to do that is to confront her and let EVERYTHING get out in the open, not just with her, but her husband as well. She has to admit the affair, and that they were both wrong to start it, and she was wrong to end it the way she did, and that he should move on with his life.
Option B
Put distance between yourself and him.
Because in the end, HE ALONE will decide whether or not to get over it and move on, or not. And you don't want to be around if he decides not is the best option.
supercharged turbo wrote:If they were to proceed with option A,let's say when the husband gets to know,he decides he wants a divorce.It have no coming back for the padna because now he would feel he could be with her all the time in peace,maybe even move their relationship to something serious.88sins wrote:Dohplaydat wrote:Need to ask a question for a friend in an odd position.
The guy got hooked to a married woman. Apparently, it was a rel intense 2 month affair. However, as soon as the wife get catch, she block the man and pretending it never happened.
Now this was over a year now, and the man still not over she. In fact, he dating a rel sweet girl now but he constantly complaining he missing the married chick.
Backstory - he crushing on this married chick since highschool and this married woman is sweet for days so the fuss is worth it to him.
But the man is mess, he'll get drunk and break down and start cussing about she then crying.
Obviously, we trying to get him to accept reality, but this guy like he got overly hung up on and I'm 99% sure his new gf will end their relationship soon.
How to help this soldier? he's a good guy, I hate to see him end up in this situation.
He sounds like a b!tch. So, he didn't realize that the possibility existed that he could get leave out? Smmfh
Anyways, you got two options
Option A
Set him down and show him how he is being stupid by not understanding what he was doing getting involved with a married person, and what he meant to her. Show him how he practically screwing up his life for a woman who simply doesn't want him and never really did, and jeopardizing his relationship with the new gf. Also, dude need to get some closure, and the best way to do that is to confront her and let EVERYTHING get out in the open, not just with her, but her husband as well. She has to admit the affair, and that they were both wrong to start it, and she was wrong to end it the way she did, and that he should move on with his life.
Option B
Put distance between yourself and him.
Because in the end, HE ALONE will decide whether or not to get over it and move on, or not. And you don't want to be around if he decides not is the best option.
The_Honourable wrote:If he was piping her good and did stay under the radar, only a matter of time she pops up again. As he started to get all emo and move like a bi*ch, that was the end. Even if she steps out from her husband again, a next man getting the benefits.
He needs serious therapy. A friend or friends would not be able to help. He needs to get checked in with a professional so that he can heal and move on. It will be hard because he have to come to terms with the amount of years or decades wasted thinking about this one woman. At least he get thru... some men out there in the same predicament, never get the kitty but idolizing the woman 5-10 years now maybe more.
Dohplaydat wrote:Need to ask a question for a friend in an odd position.
The guy got hooked to a married woman. Apparently, it was a rel intense 2 month affair. However, as soon as the wife get catch, she block the man and pretending it never happened.
Now this was over a year now, and the man still not over she. In fact, he dating a rel sweet girl now but he constantly complaining he missing the married chick.
Backstory - he crushing on this married chick since highschool and this married woman is sweet for days so the fuss is worth it to him.
But the man is mess, he'll get drunk and break down and start cussing about she then crying.
Obviously, we trying to get him to accept reality, but this guy like he got overly hung up on and I'm 99% sure his new gf will end their relationship soon.
How to help this soldier? he's a good guy, I hate to see him end up in this situation.
supercharged turbo wrote:If they were to proceed with option A,let's say when the husband gets to know,he decides he wants a divorce.It have no coming back for the padna because now he would feel he could be with her all the time in peace,maybe even move their relationship to something serious.
I'd go with option B. Let nature take its course.88sins wrote:Dohplaydat wrote:Need to ask a question for a friend in an odd position.
The guy got hooked to a married woman. Apparently, it was a rel intense 2 month affair. However, as soon as the wife get catch, she block the man and pretending it never happened.
Now this was over a year now, and the man still not over she. In fact, he dating a rel sweet girl now but he constantly complaining he missing the married chick.
Backstory - he crushing on this married chick since highschool and this married woman is sweet for days so the fuss is worth it to him.
But the man is mess, he'll get drunk and break down and start cussing about she then crying.
Obviously, we trying to get him to accept reality, but this guy like he got overly hung up on and I'm 99% sure his new gf will end their relationship soon.
How to help this soldier? he's a good guy, I hate to see him end up in this situation.
He sounds like a b!tch. So, he didn't realize that the possibility existed that he could get leave out? Smmfh
Anyways, you got two options
Option A
Set him down and show him how he is being stupid by not understanding what he was doing getting involved with a married person, and what he meant to her. Show him how he practically screwing up his life for a woman who simply doesn't want him and never really did, and jeopardizing his relationship with the new gf. Also, dude need to get some closure, and the best way to do that is to confront her and let EVERYTHING get out in the open, not just with her, but her husband as well. She has to admit the affair, and that they were both wrong to start it, and she was wrong to end it the way she did, and that he should move on with his life.
Option B
Put distance between yourself and him.
Because in the end, HE ALONE will decide whether or not to get over it and move on, or not. And you don't want to be around if he decides not is the best option.
matr1x wrote:Alot of men saying that they don't own the punani and it's merely there for the moment until she moves on.
Doesn't work in reverse? Why do women act as if they own a man when they get into a relationship? Like of he watch another woman, is real war. But women check out men. Plenty times
You tuners are the best advisors out I must say.88sins wrote:matr1x wrote:Alot of men saying that they don't own the punani and it's merely there for the moment until she moves on.
Doesn't work in reverse? Why do women act as if they own a man when they get into a relationship? Like of he watch another woman, is real war. But women check out men. Plenty times
Yes is a double standard, but it only applies to your circumstances if you as a man let it. Because the same way a man don't own a snatch, no woman don't own their man meat either. They might like to think they do because they might know how to manipulate the man & control him & make him do what they want, but deep down they know they don't. Women are VERY possessive when it comes to the wood, especially if they know they does get good wood.
When a woman get a man with most of the qualities she wants (a man that is easily controlled, a man that providing good wood, & can also provide for her financially & emotionally, etc.) , they tend to want to make sure that they can keep him for as long as they want him. So the idea of him looking at another woman is an indicator to them that they could lose him & all that he brings to the table that they value. In their mind, that is a real & present threat.
Most times when you see women in relationships looking at men other than the one they with, is either because they admire/like him, or they wondering what he have & could do for them & if he is an upgrade to what they have, or they want some excitement they not already getting from d man they with.
it have ways to avoid the trap, but first you have to see the trap for what & where it is
88sins wrote:matr1x wrote:Alot of men saying that they don't own the punani and it's merely there for the moment until she moves on.
Doesn't work in reverse? Why do women act as if they own a man when they get into a relationship? Like of he watch another woman, is real war. But women check out men. Plenty times
Yes is a double standard, but it only applies to your circumstances if you as a man let it. Because the same way a man don't own a snatch, no woman don't own their man meat either. They might like to think they do because they might know how to manipulate the man & control him & make him do what they want, but deep down they know they don't. Women are VERY possessive when it comes to the wood, especially if they know they does get good wood.
When a woman get a man with most of the qualities she wants (a man that is easily controlled, a man that providing good wood, & can also provide for her financially & emotionally, etc.) , they tend to want to make sure that they can keep him for as long as they want him. So the idea of him looking at another woman is an indicator to them that they could lose him & all that he brings to the table that they value. In their mind, that is a real & present threat.
Most times when you see women in relationships looking at men other than the one they with, is either because they admire/like him, or they wondering what he have & could do for them & if he is an upgrade to what they have, or they want some excitement they not already getting from d man they with.
it have ways to avoid the trap, but first you have to see the trap for what & where it is
matr1x wrote:
Very true. You must admit, most women are experts at hiding the trap
When a woman catches a man cheating, is a blank check to do anything, but not the reverse. In that Beyonce video when she done the man car for cheating, the next part should have been her collecting a tire iron to her face.
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